// iterate backwards so if we delete something our pointer doesn't get out of sync
for ($i = $rels->length; $i>0; $i--) {
$rel = $rels->item($i-1);
// foreach ($rels as $rel) {
// foreach ($rels as $rel) { // moving forward like this caused iteration errors when something was deleted
if ( //If either no object is specified, or the object matches (in either the literal or URI case), remove this node from it's parent, and mark as changed.